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Too many managers want their employees to be self-sufficient with minimal attention to keep them going. No wonder so many employees are disengaged.
Clear evidence that managers don't want to actively engage employees is the way employee engagement is defined. It's about how motivated employees are to do THEIR OWN JOBS.
A deeper level of engagement is achieved when employees become interested in the manager's work, their department's or the wellbeing of the organization as a whole.
Focusing engagement only on the employee's job fails to foster deep commitment to (or ownership for) the broader organization. As a result, many employees may well be engaged in their jobs but feel that they could just as easily achieve the same level of engagement elsewhere.
Answer givers like to generate and promote their own solutions. Doing so successfully helps them maximize their sense of ownership over, and commitment to, their own ideas. The huge cost, however, is that everyone not involved in generating your solutions feels left out and disengaged, mere passengers on YOUR bus.
Managers who like to generate their own solutions ask factual questions to gather data to fuel their own decision making. Catalysts ask for opinions and suggestions instead.
The most engaging question to ask employees is: What do you think?" There are a million variations on this question. Here are a few:
Engaging questions can be asked at different levels:
While not all employees want to raise their line of sight above their own jobs, seeking their opinions might just generate more interest and engagement than you'd expect. Even if people aren't initially interested in a subject, being asked for their suggestions can often generate interest and make them feel valued.
In addition to asking what employees think, it's critical to create an environment where employees feel confident enough to say what they think, to propose and defend solutions that might make you feel a bit uncomfortable. Here are the key steps to take:
Rampant individualism, especially in Anglo-Saxon cultures, is a huge barrier in the way of a more engaging management style. Managers pride themselves on their "smarts" – their ability to come up with brilliant solutions. Politicians campaign for election by claiming to have better solutions to pressing problems than their competitors. Executives too often have the same "I have the answers" mindset.
An executive who was coached to be more engaging by drawing solutions out of his team members said he could see the point but that doing so wouldn't feel like doing real work. "Real work" for many executives means DOING things. Maybe they delegate a lot but they reserve most of the important MENTAL work for themselves.
Scoring goals is what gets most highly rewarded in organizations, just as it does in sports where the best goal scorers earn the most money. Facilitation, drawing solutions out of others, is just not high profile enough or as much fun.
Executives want to operate as if they were managing partners in a professional services firm, like a law firm. Managing partners want their lawyers to be self-sufficient so they can devote most of their time to their own casework, rather than actually managing, coaching and developing people.
However, unless a more engaging management style is actively encouraged and rewarded, starting at the top, employee engagement and innovation – creative mental work, will continue to remain well below its potential.
In conclusion, you can start practicing a more engaging style immediately, bearing in mind that you need to manage expectations up and down. This is a leadership opportunity for you, however, to initiate and promote a culture change in order to transform your organizational culture into a more engaging one.
See also: How to Engage Employees, Creating an Engaging Culture, How to be an Engaging Manager, Cultures of Disengagement.
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